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Sunday, June 15, 2008

The Secret

I've never been one to believe in positive thinking, I'm more of prepare for the worst and hope for the best, but upon my mother's nagging of watching this movie, i think i may have to give it a shot. I have nothing to loose by trying.

The Secret reveals the most powerful law in the universe. The knowledge of this law has run like a golden thread through the lives and the teachings of all the prophets, seers, sages and saviors in the world's history, and through the lives of all truly great men and women. All that they have ever accomplished or attained has been done in full accordance with this most powerful law.

Basically its the law of attraction which simply says that you attract into your life whatever you think about. Your dominant thoughts will find a way to manifest. In my case we want a baby so i should visualize myself already pregnant and thanking the universe for it. Yes its hard but in the last week since I've been trying to do this i have found I'm not so bitter when i see a pg woman or when i see a newborn. I am trying to focus on how happy we will be when the pg finally happens and how much we will cherish it.
The movie says there are 3 basic steps to achieve this:


Ask Know what you want and ask the universe for it. This is where you need to get clear on what it is you want to create and visualise what you want as being as 'real' as possible.

Believe

Feel and behave as if the object of your desire is on its way.
Focus your thoughts and your language on what it is you want to attract. You want to feel the feeling of really 'knowing' that what you desire is on its way to you, even if you have to trick yourself into believing it – do it.
Receive Be open to receiving it. Pay attention to your intuitive messages, synchronicities, signs from the Universe to help you along the way as assurance you are on the 'right' path. As you align yourself with the Universe and open yourself up to receiving, the very thing you are wanting to manifest will show up.

I'm am also going to be reciting these mantras when i get my BFP (an I will get it)

-"Today I am pregnant and I love my baby."


-"I am pregnant until someone tells me otherwise."

-"My past does not dictate my future. A previous m/c does not mean I will have another m/c."

-"Just because something sad is happening to another poster, does not mean it will happen to me."

-"Hope does not make bad things happen." I cannot ‘jinx’ my pregnancy by creating a ticker, getting excited, or telling someone.

-"There is nothing I can do to prevent a m/c from happening. Worrying myself sick doesn't prevent a m/c. And if it were to happen again, I know I will survive."

1 comments:

Dr John Curtis said...

The Secret is the latest and by far the worst example of a HIGHLY profitable trend where self-help gurus with fabricated new age titles and little relevant education, credentials or legitimate expertise brainwash us into believing that they know what is best for us, our marriages and our families.

Often their only contribution to society is introducing some exotic sounding, new age philosophy. However, they often cleverly form an incestuous group of like-minded “experts” who cross-promote each other by swearing their success is due to following the beliefs of another member of their “cult!” All the while, they ply the airwaves jockeying for an ever-larger audience by appearing in the national media to garner third-party endorsements.

The Self-Help Movement has become the Self-Destruct Movement by diminishing or destroying our critical thinking skills to choose and evolve on our own. We have given up the freedom to build healthy lives, marriages and families based on our unique history and life experience. Instead many victims, blinded to the value of their own life experiences, are attracted to the latest secret in self-help, in an attempt to find out what they should think, feel and how they should act... this is the definition of a cult.

The solution is a return to our (common) senses! The best way out of this learned “self-helplessness” is to go cold turkey. Stop following ALL self-help gurus now. Begin, instead, to reclaim your natural, God-given ability to think for yourself. The common sense that was once readily available to all of us is still there free of charge and waiting to be applied to just about any challenge we might face in life… all you have to do is use it.

Please, let's all work together to stop the flock of "sheepeople" who blindly move from one UNPROVEN concept to the next, looking for the answers to life's challenges that you already possess and that is the OBVIOUS!