Photobucket

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Mickey's gone mad

Bedtime can be absolute hell for some households, not to brag but luckly for us its been a breeze. We co-sleep with G and granted M was opposed to it at first, now he can't imagine and actually doesn't want the day when he will sleep in his own bed. I was and is still met with "yo are crazy for doing that, he will never leave your bed" to "you are spoiloing him" (when he was younger. You know what neither of those things happened nor will they happen.  I happily co-slept with D. he went from a bedside bassinet to my bed to his toddler bed with no issues whatsoever.
G's evening routine has been bath, breast, massage, story and bed with little to no resistance. Rocking and feeding him before bed is such a precious time and one that i still get to enjoy all by myself, no one else can feed him and that feeling of his warm little body curled up next to mine is perfection at its best. Lately though him ripping his hair out while cooing himself to sleep has become an unwelcomed addition to our routine.

With his eyes half closed and nursing slower and slower, G has taken to ripping out his own hair. At first i thought he was "scratching his head because he was hot, but when it became and every nap time thing i realized i had to do something. I realized he was doing it not even fazed by his own pulling! My child is crazy... he'll never have a "decent" girlfriend or sane roommated and he'll probably end up homeless because he likes to rip out his own hair.
I turned to the now it all...aka google, turns out this is normal, its a comforting feeling for them. like sucking the solution is to give the child/baby something else they can channel their energy into like a lovie, so I gave G piglet and mickey rattle.
problem solved...sort of...now I feed G, while being beaten about the head with Mickey or piglet.
at least someone is sleeping soundly and with some hair left

Thursday, August 19, 2010

A day of hope

https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhXQDVlhoIvXhymyhH1dyD7_MnhBnE_10FSKjAXJ8ifmWytjuzK_YIB5BK-P_4iHY6KbpKPMRuTH0G0YwLCqPFu6bHRG6oYL3OL6DF7EsMP0LSgHjLLgtPGliOp6tekNtHBhNzzdA5HENw/s1600/dayofhope+miscarriage.jpg





http://august19thdayofhope.blogspot.com/

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

i wish i was this creative

I'm totally digging these 2 sites, i wish i had the time and creativity to do something like this!

new dress a day

mila's daydream

Back to school and endoscopies

Getting things ready for back to school seems like a relatively easy thing to do right? wrong, D's school, rather the 4th grade team of teachers think its necessary for each child to have 6 boxes of #2 pencils, yes you read that right 6! but not any pencils they have to be Ticonderoga  pencils. uhmm yeah do you know how hard it is to find those things? and they have to be sharpened when sent in. add this to the mile long list of additional things they ask for. ok wipes tissues pencils fine i get that they need that. but sometimes their request are a bit crazy. anyway the whole point of that rant is i have been incredibly busy.
I had not wanted to share on here that D had to undergo and endoscopy last week, all is well and he is doing great. Since he turned 1 and slimmed down from all the walking he stayed on the thinner side of the growth chart but maintained a healthy weight for him. last year he was labeled as failure to thrive because he lost weight. we tried everything, hiding veggies in food, medications, supplements, even threats of injectibles and feeding tubes. (drastic and mean i know but we were helpless and frustrated and beyond scared that our little boy was literally meting away before our eyes. I mean he is going to be 10 in January and he weighs 47 lbs!!!!
He is an extremely picky eater but the straw that broke the camel's back was when 2 months ago he lost 4 lbs in 1 month. his nutritionist decided we need the endoscopy to rule out anything we may have missed with all the other tests. the results? a mild hiatal hernia. she prescribed prevacid although he shows no symptoms whatsoever there is a chance he will once he gets older. Also a mild lactose intolerance which caught us off guard since he loves milk and has never had any reactions to it. She said it may show up and be there but not cause any symptoms at all. or that it may cause symptoms with say yogurt but not milk. But most importantly he is completely healthy, no parasites, no celciac nothing, picture perfect GI tract and stomach.

So with that said we now are going to check in with a feeding team at St. Joseph's hospital to check his eating behaviors and ours as well and with the help of the nutritionist, a psychologist a GI specialist and a whole bunch of other people. we will hopefully figure out a way to make diner a pleasant time for our family and not one that ends with fights because he is well not eating or dragging it out.

Monday, August 9, 2010

bad blogger

Wow summer has really taken me away from being here, not that its a bad thing i have been able to spend lots of outdoor time with my boys especially now that D is all healed from his foot. he still imps but his Dr. assured me he is guarding (protecting) his foot because sub-consciously he thinks its gonna hurt. i have caught him walking/running normally but every now and then when he remembers he walk the "thug" walk as Dr. H put it (i swear his words not mine)
In other news, we had a great weekend upstate by lake george. besides some white-trash-rednecks making stupid comments. ok seriously if you see someone with a stroller then please don't walk behind them because they (i assume) have a baby in said stroller and will more than likely have to make frequent unexpected stops. and if you are up my ass then don't make the stupid comment that " ugh don't you love it when people just fucking stop for no reason" to which i turned back and said "well EXCUSE ME usually works asshole!" then he mumbled something and all i got as did hubby was "you're lucky your a girl" yeah ok one flick of my well manicured finger and you would be on the floor idiot, and don't even get me started on what M would do to you.
ANYWAY on to better things
We went camping in the end of july and had a blast, although D complained it was NOT camping and i agree we had AC and a shower in the cabin, usually our cabins consist of 2 beds and a table. but i'm glad we did because i can't imagine roughing it with monkey not even my version of roughing which requires electricity for coffee in the AM and a bed.
Check out the pad



We like it so much that M actually suggested we look into buying one of these things. uhm heck yeah!
we even gave G his bath there comfortably...see...




We ended that weekend with a quick trip to space farms zoo. its really neat how close you can safely get to the animals and even feed some of them.



I also think his 2 top teeth are starting to really bug him i've yet to feel them but he started up with his chewing on anything and everything he gets his hands on. luckily my boobs have been spared but only Gd knows how long that will last! oh yeah that reminds me! YAY for me & my trusty boobs we made it to 6 + months of EBF'ing. seriously you guys have no idea how happy that makes me because there have been days where i thought i wasn't going to make enough to keep him happy...cue in the miracle tea and pills which i truly believe help. oh and tons of water too. so a big pat to myself for pushing through 3 milk blisters engorgement and all else that comes with BFing

That all for now hope you guys had a good July as well